Drug Proofing Your Child
Shared ValuesBe a living example of what you want your kids to be. Then
clarify family rules and discuss the consequences of breaking them. Young people
are less inclined to use tobacco, alcohol or drugs when parents set clear rules
prohibiting their use.
Probably the greatest value parents and grandparents can share with their
kids is a personal vibrant faith. Yet even though young people who attend church
are not immune from trouble, research shows that those who indicate a personal
faith in God, participate in church and other extracurricular activities, are
less likely to indulge themselves in drugs or alcohol.
"My personal faith in Jesus Christ has given me the strength to say 'no' to
drugs." William G. (age 16)
Love and CommunicationLearn to actively listen to your kids. If what
you are doing cannot be interrupted, tell them and prioritize a time to talk
immediately after finishing - then do it. Few things should get in the way of
listening to our kids when they want our attention.
Capture every opportunity to talk to your kids about drugs - you’ll be
alerting them to potential dangers in their environment. Clear communication
with your children helps them deal with peer pressure. For example, the role
playing of specific situations is one way to help your child know just what to
say.
Most of all, tell your children you love them as often as you can, because
children who know they are loved are less likely to disappoint those who love
them. Know where your children are going and with whom. Get to know their
friends and parents so you will be familiar with their activities. Make your own
home available to your children’s friends.
AvailabilitySpending time with your kids and building their
self-confidence helps insulate them from risky behaviors. Children who feel good
about themselves are less likely to deviate from what they know is right. |
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